بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمنِ الرَّحِيمِ
A man said to the Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم):
"I have relatives with whom i try to keep ties of relationship but they sever relations with me; and with whom I treat kindly but they treat me badly, I am gentle with them but they are rough to me." He (صلى الله عليه وسلم) replied. " If you are as you say, it is as if you are feeding them hot ashes, and you will be with a supporter against them from Allah as long as you continue to do so.